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		<title>By: Luz</title>
		<link>http://luzmcosta.com/2010/03/i-know-i-need-too-much/comment-page-1/#comment-546</link>
		<dc:creator>Luz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 May 2010 01:44:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>¡Que verdad!  Gracias por pensando en y respetando mis fronteras.  Es tan raro encontrar alguen que se a comprometido a su terapia, menos que se a entregado tan completamente y lo a sustenido por tanto tiempo, que as llegado a un lugar desde que uno puede darle a otro el respeto apropiado.  Es algo que espero encontrar en mis amigas físicamente más cerca.  :(

Thanks for the comfort from afar.  :*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>¡Que verdad!  Gracias por pensando en y respetando mis fronteras.  Es tan raro encontrar alguen que se a comprometido a su terapia, menos que se a entregado tan completamente y lo a sustenido por tanto tiempo, que as llegado a un lugar desde que uno puede darle a otro el respeto apropiado.  Es algo que espero encontrar en mis amigas físicamente más cerca.  <img src='http://luzmcosta.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for the comfort from afar.  :*</p>
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		<title>By: Tarsila</title>
		<link>http://luzmcosta.com/2010/03/i-know-i-need-too-much/comment-page-1/#comment-522</link>
		<dc:creator>Tarsila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 02:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bueno, quien mejor sabe de tu vida es tu misma, no es verdad? Y además, después de algunos años haciendo terapia para recuperarme de los abusos que pasé, aprendí como es importante sentir que nuestras fronteras son seguras y que nuestras ideas y decisiones son respetadas... pienso que el mismo debe ser importante a ti también...

Espero que estés bien, un beso!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>bueno, quien mejor sabe de tu vida es tu misma, no es verdad? Y además, después de algunos años haciendo terapia para recuperarme de los abusos que pasé, aprendí como es importante sentir que nuestras fronteras son seguras y que nuestras ideas y decisiones son respetadas&#8230; pienso que el mismo debe ser importante a ti también&#8230;</p>
<p>Espero que estés bien, un beso!!</p>
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		<title>By: Luz</title>
		<link>http://luzmcosta.com/2010/03/i-know-i-need-too-much/comment-page-1/#comment-501</link>
		<dc:creator>Luz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 01:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL.  I always smile when you suggest you’re being invasive.  It shows a respect for my boundaries, a respect many deny me because I expose my feelings online.  I wonder if showing a “private” part would merit me an equally violent reaction.

Graçias por siempre dejandome mensajes.  :*  Besos y abrazos.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL.  I always smile when you suggest you’re being invasive.  It shows a respect for my boundaries, a respect many deny me because I expose my feelings online.  I wonder if showing a “private” part would merit me an equally violent reaction.</p>
<p>Graçias por siempre dejandome mensajes.  :*  Besos y abrazos.</p>
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		<title>By: Luz</title>
		<link>http://luzmcosta.com/2010/03/i-know-i-need-too-much/comment-page-1/#comment-500</link>
		<dc:creator>Luz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 01:24:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:( It sometimes seems I think too much about what’s going on in other people’s minds, and my conclusions are always negative.  So, it isn’t that I care what they think.  It’s that I’m afraid what they think of me is correct.  I’m afraid these voices I’ve projected onto them are right.  Ipso facto, I’m afraid my own voices are right.  :(  That would be my hell.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://luzmcosta.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  It sometimes seems I think too much about what’s going on in other people’s minds, and my conclusions are always negative.  So, it isn’t that I care what they think.  It’s that I’m afraid what they think of me is correct.  I’m afraid these voices I’ve projected onto them are right.  Ipso facto, I’m afraid my own voices are right.  <img src='http://luzmcosta.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />   That would be my hell.</p>
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		<title>By: Luiza</title>
		<link>http://luzmcosta.com/2010/03/i-know-i-need-too-much/comment-page-1/#comment-446</link>
		<dc:creator>Luiza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 21:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Luz,

In terms of quality of writing, Sam is right - these texts you cut are probably the best ones - this particular post is fantastic.

In terms of yourself, what you feel like or feel not like publishing... I&#039;m afraid Sam cannot tell you that. 

Most part of the job I had to do after being raped was learning to draw the line again - como &quot;hasta aquí puedo ir y hasta allá ya no puedo, es el límite personal mío&quot;.

Entiendes? wenno perdóname si estoy siendo invasiva, sólo quería compartir un poquito de lo que sentí de tu post basada en mi experiencia personal... Un beso grande!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Luz,</p>
<p>In terms of quality of writing, Sam is right &#8211; these texts you cut are probably the best ones &#8211; this particular post is fantastic.</p>
<p>In terms of yourself, what you feel like or feel not like publishing&#8230; I&#8217;m afraid Sam cannot tell you that. </p>
<p>Most part of the job I had to do after being raped was learning to draw the line again &#8211; como &#8220;hasta aquí puedo ir y hasta allá ya no puedo, es el límite personal mío&#8221;.</p>
<p>Entiendes? wenno perdóname si estoy siendo invasiva, sólo quería compartir un poquito de lo que sentí de tu post basada en mi experiencia personal&#8230; Un beso grande!</p>
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		<title>By: bradamant</title>
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		<dc:creator>bradamant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 09:12:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Romans 15: 13

Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother&#039;s way.

I&#039;m sure it applies to sister&#039;s, too. 

Just relax and try not to judge. None of us can know exactly what&#039;s going on in someoneelse&#039;s mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Romans 15: 13</p>
<p>Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother&#8217;s way.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure it applies to sister&#8217;s, too. </p>
<p>Just relax and try not to judge. None of us can know exactly what&#8217;s going on in someoneelse&#8217;s mind.</p>
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		<title>By: Luz Costa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luz Costa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:02:38 +0000</pubDate>
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